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    The woes of flexibility vs. structure

    I paused my Trainwell subscription, my exercise app. I didn’t give up my exercise routine if that’s what you’re wondering, though it has suffered in the last couple of weeks. As I explained to my excellent coach on the app, there were two reasons for that.

    The more immediate and simple one is everything going around me: I’m moving out, and I am now tasked with working both in my new position and my old position, which I left a few months back since there’s no one else who can do it at this point. These two things with an additional few recent stressful events cause my insomnia to spike, and I often wake up after 4-5 hours of sleep, which messes up my ability to work even further, putting me in a vicious cycle of trying to make up lost for time and energy.

    The longer, more complicated reason is the lack of flexibility. Trainwell is an exercise app with a limited number of exercises and a busy coach who can’t remember and adjust everything about you. Things like meditation and even running are not handled well by the app, at least not yet, and I have to look elsewhere for those. Since Trailwell costs $100 a month, I expect more from it, and it can’t deliver.

    I have very limited space in the apartment to exercise, so some exercises and stretches don’t work for me. On top of that, the app works by introducing new cycles each couple of weeks, and these come filled with mostly new exercises that I haven’t done in the previous cycle. I tried to navigate away from exercises I didn’t want and keep the ones I did with limited success. New cycles usually mean a period of adjustment and learning, and I realized that this is starting to damage my routine. Instead of improving what I do slowly, I’m starting something new.

    Speaking of routine, I’m now at a point where I want to exercise without being forced into it. It’s a good part of my day, with the key (that I keep forgetting) of doing just a little at a time and doing more after I start if I can and have the time. Doing a short 10-minute daily exercise is always better than not doing anything because I’m intimidated by an intense 30 minutes of weight lifting. Yes, I can adjust my exercises on the run and work with my coach, but that in itself is cumbersome, and I don’t always want to explain why I did one thing instead of the other every time. I asked myself: if I’m already adjusting and switching exercises to fit my needs, then what use is the app in guiding me anymore? And the last couple of weeks were based on adjustments to my crazy schedule.

    So, I decided to return to my old workout sheet with the addition of a few exercises I’ve learned in the last months. Here’s a portion of it:

    Auto-generated description: A workout log features exercises listed with durations and markings indicating which days exercises were performed.

    However, I quickly learned that a simple spreadsheet is problematic. I want to measure daily exercises (in the image, you see the page for February. I have a sheet for January and will keep going for a year), so I’m using the Y axis for the exercise names. I wrote the specifications for reps/sets/weights next to the exercise’s name (it will take too much room to specify for each day), but it is an issue if I want to change the number of sets/reps I’m doing on the fly. For example, if I join pull-ups and chair dips, I probably want to lower the number of push-ups I do that day since they overlap the same muscle groups. Another issue is that different exercises may have different data altogether - for example, running records speed and distance, not weight and sets. Yet another problem is that the list of exercises becomes longer, and finding the exercise I want to do on a certain day and joining it with others becomes confusing, so I need to start color-code those, which means I need to be more picky about which colors I use when I go up in sets/reps during the week…

    you get the idea. It just doesn’t cut it, and I have issues already.

    Meanwhile, I have my Apple Watch, which I’m trying to utilize for all of this. It comes with Workouts, but those are basic pre-determined activities that don’t allow me to add weight or follow sets conveniently if I break for rest in between. There are other apps out there I could use, but then I run into the same problem I have with Trainwell and flexibility: if the app doesn’t have a certain workout, it’s annoying to use it just for some things and not everything.

    I don’t like the lack of structure in my exercises, which is why I need the table on one hand, but on the other hand, it’s not flexible enough to do what I need. It’s starting to sound like “I’m holding it wrong”, not an app or a sheet problem, if you get my meaning.

    Still, the exercises I end up doing are good and fit my routine better than the ones I followed on the app, as in. At least I’m doing something. I need to figure this out.

    Nat knows me well 😂 An early holiday gift. 📷

    If you’re interested, it was made by a local collective of metal artists: www.metalpark.org

    Big city lights 📷

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    This spot is calling my name 📷

    A cozy, minimalist café corner features wooden shelves, small plants, and a simple table with stools.

    This has been quite a week… 📷

    Auto-generated description: A bald man is reflected in a tiled bathroom mirror with a floral-patterned wall in the background.

    I like effective things, and my big, bulky wallet was up for an upgrade-downgrade. A gift from a talented friend 📷:

    A leather cardholder with a Visa credit card and a health insurance card partially visible inside.

    Leather. The strap pulls up the cards (no more than 3). A back pocket for cash is sewed in the back.

    An afternoon walk is all you need sometimes. 📷

    I’m still figuring out how to use my notebook for different things. For now there are four main things: reminders, bigger tasks, points before a meeting and taking apart bigger ideas, or brainstorming.

    NK, on the other hand, has been using notebooks for years. Being the colorful person they are, they develop creative ways to write down their thoughts. One of the ways they choose to enclose lists in days is in circles. I’m not sure I’ll adopt this system myself, but it does look good.

    Here’s a look 📷 of two days from our vacation, with their permission:

    Two overlapping circles on graph paper contain handwritten notes, with various names and locations, surrounded by blue watercolor stains.

    Time to leave later today. It’s been grey since we got here, but somehow it added to the charm of the place with Halloween and everything. X-files trees and stormy-like beaches 📷

     A waterfront park with people standing by benches with a cloudy sky overhead and distant views of a pier and city skyline. There's a vibrant colorful artificial statute next to the people. Auto-generated description: A lush forest scene with tall trees and vibrant green foliage.

    We were told these little “coffee huts” are everywhere in gas stations here. I like the idea:

    A small, blue lighthouse-shaped building serves as an espresso stand in a parking lot of a gas station

    On the beach, this quiet small town was bathing in the sun. 📷

    Auto-generated description: A serene coastal scene features a curve of pebble beach bordered by driftwood, with houses nestled among lush trees and a steep bluff.

    A trip to Rosario Beach in the afternoon finally turned on the “vacation mode” switch in my mind. Walking the trails near the cliffs and being surrounded by quiet and nature, and not a single piece of trash in sight, it’s shocking. New York parks are so dirty 😔

    A warm-up photo with my camera 📷

    Auto-generated description: A wooden table is set near a window looking out at islands on a misty sea, with a pair of gloves resting on the table.

    In Washington, it seems there are parks around every corner. A park for a walk. A park for sitting on a bench and relaxing. A park for you and your dog - and then a dog park inside that park as well. There’s even a spot for gnomes.

    Fun times. 📷

    Auto-generated description: A wooden garden sign leans against a fence in front of a red building, with several pumpkins scattered on the ground. Auto-generated description: A wooden bench is nestled among lush greenery and trees beside a leaf-strewn path. Auto-generated description: A small gnome figurine is nestled in a mossy nook of a tree trunk amidst a lush forest.

    On a walk around west village, we saw this little guy looking at us through the window. 📷🐶

    A dog peers through an opening below a window shade, letting in soft light and showing books in the background.

    A quiet weekend away from the city is a remedy every New Yorker should take every now and then.

    Auto-generated description: A small dock with a chair in the foreground overlooks a calm lake surrounded by gently sloping hills.

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    Auto-generated description: A serene lakeside view features lush green grass, benches, a dock, and distant hills under a blue sky.

    I’m not an art expert, but this looks like a piece of junk they pulled out of the water. It’s an eyesore in this otherwise green park. 📷

    A rusty, brown metal sculpture stands in a grassy park surrounded by trees and overlooking a body of water with a small sign nearby.

    I get peaches at the farmer’s market down the block. I have to wait two days before they’re ready to be eaten, but they’re worth the wait. 📷

    World Trade Center, on my way to Jersey City 📷

    The inside of The Oculus World Trade Center Transportation Hub: A spacious indoor area with a high ceiling, large windows, and numerous people walking and sitting on benches. It looks like the inside of a giant dinosaur skeleton. JTR wearing glasses is partially visible at the bottom of the image, with the of the Oculus in the background, a ceiling featuring vertical beams from steel above.

    Typical NYC hangout, complete with coffee and your typical “heavily stickered and graffiti-covered hand dryer” (sometimes the AI description nails it) in the bathroom 📷:

    Auto-generated description: A beverage in a pouch labeled Caffeinated Human of NYC is placed on a wooden table with a straw inserted. Auto-generated description: A h is mounted on a tiled bathroom wall above a trash can.

    More doors of Hudson 📷

    One of the things that immediately captured my eye were some of the houses and their doors, specifically. Here are some pictures from my first round with my camera. 📷

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