@Annie I get that a lot, usually from women. The case for men (again, usually, also not specific to cis men or cis women) is the extreme opposite: to little and too far in between. The dating apps are fueling the gap further, probably because it's a profitable business model, and it's also easier to build algorithms that mimic other apps then to come up with something complex and complicated for this kind of human interaction.

At the end it's up to use humans, and get out of our comfort zones. It's probably one of the areas in life where taking risks and chances is the most rewarding - and can be also most devastating.